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how to love everybody: a vision for a better world — May 24, 2015

how to love everybody: a vision for a better world

I was having a deep thinking for some time on the topic that why do we hate others , why do we pick fights and what really makes us hate others. Then I got inside it further, I started thinking about myself that do I really hate somebody or do I really wanted to hate anybody in this world. I could think of nobody but why. What makes me so soft hearted that I don’t want to hate anybody or I don’t want to pick fight with anybody. Then what makes anybody to hate somebody so much. Why war happened and what was the reason for those killings. This takes me inside a deeper concept. I thought about my childhood and the surrounding in which I have lived and the qualities and thinking I have inbuilt in myself. Alright, I have been treated right and I have been living my life to a satisfaction level and probably that’s why I don’t have a revenge or hating kind of mindset.  I could have been a different person, I could have a rude temperament or hating kind of view but I don’t have. I am soft hearted and don’t want to pick a fight or hate somebody. It’s not that I am weak or I think I don’t have the capacity to hate anybody or to fight anybody or to have a rude kind of behavior with anybody. What actually changed my outlook was the quality thinking and the surrounding I lived in. This might or might not change but what I actually feels right now is to have a good thinking and good behavior for everybody around.  I could have been a person with a different perspective for the society around and I could have been rude to others if my surrounding and the thinking would have been different. I would have been a different if my situation would have been different and if I had gone through some harsh phase in my life.

Then the thinking got more deeper. What actually have happened if I was a person with different kind of mindset, obviously,  I would not have been writing this blog post on loving others, I would have been different. I would have hated others and probably have expected the same from others. It’s like Sir Newton’s third law to every reaction there is an equal and opposite reaction. So what could have changed me if I was a rude, hatred and aggressive to others. The answer is pretty much obvious “love”. Probably I would have changed myself and my perception would have changed even if I wouldn’t have been a good, cool minded and soft hearted person. That love might have changed me.

A person perception towards world could be soft or hard but if they would get the right treatment afterwards that could change them. I think Loving and treating a person who didn’t give you the expected reaction is reasonable. Because, you could have been in the same position and would have gone through the same situation as the person in front of you that didn’t show the expected reaction. He is already suffering as he  has  already lacked the right situation, surrounding and the quality thinking that you are lucky to have. So, I think loving and treating the opposite nature the right way is also reasonable somewhere.  I think If I do have the quality thinking and the guts to challenge my own capacity of spreading the love, we all could, we all could change our thinking to a better world.